TJ has created this community to be a safe, supportive, private space where you can meet like-minded women on the same unusual path to motherhood as you, get support and coaching for your journey, and be inspired by behind-the-scenes videos from TJ’s own life as a solo mama, older mama, and donor-egg mama. ๐Ÿ’–

Who Is This Community For?

TJ has created the MyBabyDream community for women who are on an unusual path to motherhood. For example:

  • doing it as a Single Mother By Choice,
  • using a donor egg / donor embryo / surrogate,
  • in a gay couple,
  • much older or much younger than the norm, etc.

Basically our community is for women who don’t quite fit into the traditional fertility/motherhood groups because you are a total QUEEN and you are taking an original path! ๐Ÿ’ƒ

You are welcome here NO MATTER WHAT STAGE YOU ARE AT IN YOUR JOURNEY. Whether you:

  • are just starting to think about maybe having a baby one day;
  • are in the process of trying to get pregnant;
  • are pregnant right now;
  • are a new Mama;
  • or are raising multiple children!

We are one of the few online communities that has a large number of women over 45 on a double donor or egg donor journey. Yet we also welcome younger women who need support, especially if they are on the solo mama path or the donor egg path. Please join us, we would love to cheer you on!

At the moment we have just over 100 members, from 15 different countries, and are members are very active inside the community, supporting each other and cheering each other on. It’s beautiful!

What Is Included In Your Membership Fee?

Membership costs $10 a month (only $2.50 a week.) You get a huge amount of value for that small contribution!

Inside the community, you can meet other women, make friends and get ongoing support for your journey. Your monthly membership includes access to all our community spaces and chat groups, where you can share the highs and lows of your baby journey, read posts by other women, ask questions, share information, and get support, empathy and cheerleading!

We also run regular ‘Support Circles’, where you can connect face-to-face with other women in the same situation in a zoom-style circle and get support for your journey and build friendships with people who really understand you.

It is a very close-knit community, extremely welcoming and loving, recognising that we are all in the same boat. The structure and layout and features of the community are very different to a Facebook group, as the Circle platform we are using is specifically designed for connection and community.

Your membership also includes access to TJ’s private behind-the-scene ‘Real Mum Life’ videos which you cannot see on YouTube. And TJ spends time in the community every day and is always there to answer questions and give you encouragement and support. We have even set up a new ‘ASK TJ’ space where you can ask TJ any questions you want, to help you in your journey.

Your membership also gives you huge discounts on TJ’s powerful Support Seminars that give practical tips and strategies to help you adjust to motherhood much more easily, as well as tools and perspectives to help you with the emotional and mental side of this journey, including reassuring your biggest fears.

“Thank you so much. I never imagined support from complete strangers across the world would bring me so much comfort.”

โ€” One of our members who is on a solo-mama donor-egg journey

How Much Does It Cost? 

  • The Membership fee for the MyBabyDream Community is currently at the special price of only USD $10 a month. (Thath’s only $2.50 a week!)
  • We use a specialist community platform called Circle to run our community. $10 a month is extremely low for a community on the Circle platform. (Most of them charge $49 a month or more.) This is because the platform’s features are truly powerful for connection and community. We are very lucky to be able to host our community there.
  • Why are we only charging $10 a month? TJ has chosen to keep our community membership fee as low as she possibly can, to make it affordable to women everywhere, while just barely covering her costs of running it.

  • You can cancel your membership at any time. But we hope you will stay with us longterm, so you can make real friendships to support you through all the stages of your motherhood journey.
  • Our Community gives you the chance to meet women who are on a highly unusual motherhood path, such as women over 45 using donor eggs, and single women doing double donor. This means for the first time you will not be alone on your journey. The women in our community are finding it to be an invaluable place for support, understanding, friendship and kinship on their journey. We know you will too!
  • If you truly cannot afford $2.50 a week, then please send TJ an email at tj@mybabydream.club explaining your situation. She may be able to arrange for you to contribute to the community in another way without paying. This option is for women in genuine hardship. ๐Ÿ’–

๐Ÿ’› THIS LOW MEMBERSHIP FEE OF $10 WILL ONLY BE AVAILABLE FOR A LIMITED TIME AS WE GROW OUR COMMUNITY TOGETHER. IN THE FUTURE, WE’LL BE INTRODUCING NEW FEATURES AND CONTENT THAT WILL ADD EVEN MORE VALUE FOR MEMBERS. SO GRAB THIS FANTASTIC RATE WHILE IT’S AVAILABLE. ๐Ÿ’›

How Is Our Membership Community Different To A Free Facebook Group? 

  • The MyBabyDream Community is not just a place to write posts like on Facebook, it has been designed to foster real lasting friendships between women from all around the world who are all BabyDreamers and BabyMamas on the same path as you.
  • The Community is run on a very sophisticated community platform called Circle. It offers powerful features for connection and community that you can’t find in Facebook groups or in other free spaces.
  • The MyBabyDream Community is totally PRIVATE. It is carefully moderated to keep it a very warm, welcoming, loving space.
  • People need to apply to enter our Community, so it is much smaller than a Facebook group, more friendly and more intimate. The community is set up with profiles and badges and member introductions, so it is very easy to get to know people.
  • There are different areas in the community for different kinds of posts, so it is very easy to find what you are looking for, and to make connections that are appropriate for where you are at in your journey.
  • We have some subgroups where you can have real time chats with women in the same situation as you.
  • We also run small face-to-face ‘Support Circles’ in a zoom-style format where you can really get to know other women in the community, share your challenges and fears with people who really understand them, and get profound support for your journey.
  • The entire MyBabyDream Community is based on deep listening and empathy. So when you share your journey in there, you will experience being heard, listened to and really understood, rather than getting judgment or criticism. We have a rule that people only give advice if the person posting asks for it. Otherwise we just give empathy and support!
  • After you join, TJ will personally introduce you to other women in the community who are on the exact same path as you at the same stage, to help you kick off some new friendships in the community.
  • There are NO ADS inside our Community and NO DISTRACTIONS (unlike Facebook, which can suck half your afternoon away!) .
  • Inside the Community, you have access to short behind-the-screene videos from TJ’s own real life as a solo mom, an older mom and a donor-recipent mom. These very honest, raw, authentic and very personal videos are NOT visible on her public YouTube channel. 
  • In this private space, TJ is often joined in the videos by her adorable little daughter, Baby Star, who no longer appears on TJ’s public YouTube channel. So this is the only place where you can see their beautiful bond on camera, and be inspired by their incredible journey!
  • TJ is planning to start interviewing OTHER women about their inspiring baby journeys. You will only be able to watch those full videos here, as they will not be shown on her public YouTube channel.
  • There is a special space inside the community called “ASK TJ” where you can ask TJ any questions about her own journey or ask for her advice about your journey. TJ spends a lot of time in here helping women in the community.
  • The community is also an entry portal to TJ’s paid coaching and mentoring offerings, so you can get the deeper support and handholding you need to thrive and soar on your journey, no matter how difficult the road you are taking, all at highly DISCOUNTED prices only available to community members.

TAKE A PEEK INSIDE OUR COMMUNITY!

Who Is TJ And Why Did She Start This Community?

TJ Woolf is a true Renaissance Woman – a public speaker, writer, thought leader, mentor and coach with a Masters in Law from Oxford, who had her baby at age 48 by herself as a Single Mother By Choice, using donor sperm and donor eggs.

She has created the MyBabyDream community to inspire, connect, and support other women who are also walking a brave pioneering path to motherhood. She puts hours of her time every week into running the community as it is her big passion project! She says “Letโ€™s go on this journey together, hold hands and cheer each other on!ย “

How Are You Keeping The Community Safe?

In order to ensure the safety of the women in the community and any babies and children who are featured or mentioned in the community, (including TJ’s daughter Baby Star, who appears in many of her videos), we have set up a strict entry process to enter the community. So when you click the link to join the community, you will need to answer a few questions about yourself. If anyone’s identity seems questionable, they will be removed from the community. And if anyone posts any hateful, judgmental or fear-mongering comments, they will be removed from the community.


How Can I Get The Most Out Of Being In The Community?

The MyBabyDream community lives and dies by the energy that our members put into it. So make sure to post questions, answer the weekly check-in posts and polls, share pics, start discussions, post your exciting news and milestones, ask for support when you need it, join in the group chats, participate in our live Support Circles, and take part as much as you can. The more you put into this community, the more you will get out of it! ๐Ÿ˜Š 

If you have any questions, get in touch.

tj@mybabydream.club